I've highlighted Dale Carnegie's principle "Don't, criticize, condemn, or complain," on many occasions with clients. On a fairly regular basis, I get the question back, "Well, how am I supposed to address problems if I can't be critical?"
It's a fair question, and one that a lot of us struggle with. After all, most of us want to have good relationships with the people we influence, but it's inevitable that we need to communicate when we don't get the anticipated results. While we should all limit our critical language, giving and receiving feedback is essential for success.
So, what's the distinction?
Merriam-Webster's dictionary defines the word "criticize" as:
To consider the merits and demerits of and judge accordingly: evaluate; to find fault with : point out the faults of
And "feedback" is defined as:
The transmission of evaluative or corrective information about an action, event, or process to the original or controlling source; also : the information so transmitted
At first glance, the definitions appear similar. Here's why they're not the same and what you can do to navigate the distinction:
Intention
While the word "evaluate" appears in both definitions, only the definition for criticize includes the words "judge" and "fault." At the same time, only the definition for feedback includes the word "corrective." Both effective and ineffective leaders evaluate what happened, but only effective leaders have the intention to help people get better going forward. Ineffective leaders may wish for this, but are pre-occupied with finding blame first.
1. ARE YOU MORE INTERESTED IN HELPING THAN BLAMING?
HEART
The Japanese have a word that roughly means "challenge with love." A leader must open up their heart to genuinely care about the individual they are leading or mentoring. The feelings in our heart about the person we're trying to develop come out in our words and actions. When I run into someone that I find particularly difficult, one thing I often ask myself is, "What's one thing I can find about this person to love?" If I can find the answer to that question, I do a lot better.
2. ARE YOU ABLE TO FIND THINGS YOU LOVE ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU LEAD?
FUTURE
Effective leaders look forward and develop people that will help everyone achieve a shared vision. They look to the past only to the extent that data and lessons from the past can make the future better. While the past is the starting point of most feedback sessions, the best leaders quickly move on to their most important focus: what's been learned and what steps do all parties take going forward?
3. ARE YOU TALKING MORE ABOUT THE FUTURE THAN THE PAST?
If you can answer consistent yeses to the three questions above, you're likely doing well. If you answered no to any of these questions, then you are in good company with many of us who still slip into criticism.
To focus more on feedback, let's all take one action this week that will give us practice giving feedback. BASED ON THE THREE AREAS ABOVE, WHAT ACTION WILL YOU TAKE TO MAKE THIS SHIFT? Tell our community and me in the comments below.
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I mentioned the Photo Walk we took last weekend briefly in my Type-A Mom recap post, but today I wanted to share some of the photos from the event. The photo up top is my favorite from the walk. I edited it a bit - cropped a tiny bit off of the lady's dress up top, colorized it some, and added an edge burn (Pioneer Woman's site has these Photoshop actions available for download). I adore the shot - and the feeling it evokes. I love shoes and bags... and bokeh.
Bokeh is the faded part of the photograph that has a nice blur - and sometimes makes the picture look more like a work of art and less like a photograph. The Chocolate Lounge shot has NO bokeh. Everything is nice and crisp. Don't you just want to mosey on in there and have some sweets? Mmmmm. Chocolate.
I had a groovy crew to hang with for the walk. TYPE (see above photo - sorry, had to include it) A Moms. A for AWESOME. We had less time than we planned since our conference session went longer than scheduled, but it was a wonderful FIRST Photo Walk for me. Dawn and some of the others had already been on these types of photography events before.
Here's Dawn, Little Tech Girl and Mishelle. I plan to make Photo Walking a new hobby. Only, I'll have to get Morgan's camera fixed so the kids can share it. She borrowed my camera a few times and helped me change lenses. She was my photo assistant!
Dawn's "shoot sack" was pretty cool, too. Wish they would send me one to review! If you can't have an assistant, it pays to have your lenses nicely squared away on your hip.
Driving through a city gives you a small taste of what it is like, but when you are on foot, you get to see so many little things that you would miss in a car. Take for instance: this neat little 'Doggie in the Window'. I whistled at him when he disappeared inside to come back and he posed for us. I love standing still and listening to the buzz of traffic and people moving while I'm on a busy city street.
We got to see the bustling city at dusk. And we got to enjoy performances by local musicians. These are the Lyrical Vocalists, I think. There was a guy painted in white with a black guitar, too. When he was finished singing, he froze and tried to appear as a statue. The city is full of strange sights and interesting people to photograph. Dawn got some head shots of this guy. I was too far behind the crowd and our bus was about to pick us up for a ride back to the hotel.
We enjoyed the picturesque display of neon, groovy shops, and artwork. Below is a Viking Helmet (which of course, I had to photograph since my little baby was 9 lbs. and 4 oz. - two weeks early - and we've been affectionately calling him 'The Viking' since before he was born).
We even enjoyed snapping shots of each other.
I figured I would be really out of place with the big-shot photogs and their colossal lenses. However, they were really nice people - and they didn't make fun of me for asking questions about my DSLR. Mishelle even showed me a trick or two. If you like taking pictures, and you have a chance to get out and do a photo walk in your area... by all means, don't chicken out! You'll be glad you went!
Quick Links:
More Photographs from the Walk at my Whrrl Story
My Homeschool Series - where you can find more field trips by grade/year
Another Out-of-State Field Trip Adventure
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The past two decades have seen notable progress for women in corporate America, as most forms of overt gender discrimination have been eliminated and many companies have invested in women's advancement initiatives and organizational change programs. So why is it that the dial has barely moved for women at the highest ranks of business?
Last year's "Fortune 500 Women Executive Officers and Top Earners" report by Catalyst revealed that women held only 16.6 percent of corporate board seats in 2012-the seventh straight year of no growth. It was also reported that women held 14.3 percent of executive officer positions for the third year in a row.
The gender gap in leadership is a major concern, not only for women who aspire to leadership, but also for companies that need strong, diverse leadership teams to help them compete successfully in a marketplace that is increasingly female, global, and volatile.
Why does the gender gap in leadership persist? The answer is complicated, but one piece of the puzzle is second-generation gender bias. This is quite different from first-generation gender bias, which is characterized by intentional acts of bias. Second-generation gender bias was examined in the recent Harvard Business Review article "Women Rising: The Unseen Barriers," written by Robin Ely, Herminia Ibarra, and Deborah Kolb. The authors describe second-generation bias as "cultural assumptions and organizational structures and practices that inadvertently benefit men while putting women at a disadvantage." These dynamics can go far in shaping formal systems, including promotion practices and compensation practices.
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Second-generation gender bias reveals itself when women leaders find themselves in "double binds" because many characteristics associated with leadership are linked with masculinity. Words like "strong, assertive," and "decisive," the authors write, tend to engender confidence from colleagues when these attributes are associated with men. Women who display these attributes, however, are often seen as unlikeable or bossy. It should come as no surprise that the workplace prefers women to be empathetic, caretaking, and unselfish, yet women who demonstrate these "nice" qualities are liked and not respected. They are regarded as too soft to be a strong leader. It's a no-win situation.
Another example of this particular form of bias is women's lack of access to influential networks and sponsors. As we well know, informal networks are crucial for aspiring leaders, but as the authors note, "the differences in men's and women's organizational positions, and the tendency for each to network with others of the same gender, leads to women building weaker networks than men -- and having less access to mentors and sponsors who have the ability to help them get promoted."
BREAKING DOWN THE BARRIERS OF BIAS
In their drive to close the gender gap in leadership, a growing number of the world's leading companies are trying to break the barriers erected by second-generation gender bias.
When female representation in the partnership ceased to budge, audit partner at global accounting firm Grant Thornton, Stella Shanovich, said the firm had to change its approach.
"By 2012, female representation in the partnership had been hovering at about 16 percent for a few years," Shanovich, said. To push past this threshold, the firm "had to be more intentional and purposeful in our approach."
CEO Stephen Chipman decided to apply greater scrutiny to the partner nomination process, working directly with the national managing partner of Diversity and Inclusion and her team to be more rigorous about identifying high-performing women senior managers, and monitoring their development and progress by region. The payoff: in two years, the percentage of women in the partnership notched up to its current level of 18 percent.
"Female representation will continue to increase because we now have a better process in place for advancing top female talent," Shanovich said. "Some describe this process as 'getting the right people on the bus,' but it's really about getting the right people in the right seats on the bus."
In other words, it is meticulous and focused work. Nevertheless, the firm is committed to building a next-generation leadership team that's strong and diverse. Shanovich says she "looks forward to reporting significant progress in the next few years."
At KPMG, which also focuses on ensuring diverse slates of candidates for partnership, leadership development is approached from a "long-term perspective," says Kathy Hannan, National Managing Partner of Diversity and Corporate Responsibility. "To make sure female representation in senior leadership is sustainable, we must identify and develop talented women with leadership potential throughout the continuum, including the earlier stages of their careers."
CREATING A ROBUST SPONSORSHIP PROGRAM
A growing number of influential organizations, including Grant Thornton, KPMG, and Crowell & Moring, maintain formal sponsorship programs. These initiatives are designed to connect high-performing women with people in positions of power at their organizations who will actively support and promote them.
KPMG's Leaders Engaging Leaders initiative pairs members of its board and management committee with high-performing female and diverse partners, with the goal of developing them for client and operational leadership positions. Grant Thornton's Advancement of Women sponsorship program, launched in 2011, provides high-talent female senior managers with an advocate at the senior partner level who can help them navigate the path to partnership. Thus far, 50 percent of the first program class has been promoted to partner or managing director.
In a recent Washington Post article on corporate sponsorship programs, Crowell & Moring chair Kent Gardiner explained the rationale for the firm's sponsorship initiative.
"Law firms tend to be very white, very male, and [tend to stick with the same] demographic in terms of moving power and authority down to other people," Gardiner said. "So the idea that you've brought in a class that's more than half women lawyers doesn't mean that half the organization is going to be led by women in any reasonable time in the future."
According to Gardiner, Crowell & Moring's sponsorship program has been a vehicle for "prying open" the firm's "old boys" network, which in turn makes it effective at helping women combat second-generation gender bias.
LEAD FROM THE TOP
Active leadership and engagement from the c-suite is critical.
"The people at the top echelons of an organization are the only ones with the power to move the needle," Shanovich said.
At Grant Thornton, Chipman is front and center, as were his predecessors. Their championship enabled the firm's women's initiative - Women at Grant Thornton - to triple the percentage of female partners in less than a decade.
"Change happens when you have someone at the top who provides authentic leadership, along with a bold vision and strategy that are clear and easy to articulate," Hannan said.
At KPMG, CEO John Veihmeyer's visible support for KPMG's Network of Women (KNOW) and Women's Advisory Board (WAB) signals to leadership that women's advancement is a high-priority business strategy. Since the start of KNOW and WAB in 2003, the percentage of female senior managers/directors increased 19 percent, the number of female partners increased 66 percent, and the percentage of women on the KPMG board of directors increased from 6 percent in 2003 to the 25 percent it's at today.
CREATING A SAFE PLACE
People who are at, or near, the top rungs of business face much scrutiny, which can have an inhibiting effect on those whose manner is regarded as unconventional. Thus, providing high-talent women with a safe environment for coaching, experimentation, and discussing double binds, communication style, and other knotty issues is critical to developing their identities as leaders.
Shanovich coaches Grant Thornton managers on a host of skills, including executive presence, and says that some aspiring leaders are "concerned about their unique communication styles."
"We don't want our professionals to think that they can advance only if they act like the people at the senior levels," Shanovich said.
The reason why second-generation gender bias is so insidious is because it isn't as overt as the kind of discrimination women experienced in the past. Its effects are more subtle, but when you look at the lack of female representation at the highest levels, second-generation gender bias' impact is apparent.
If companies take the advice of firms like Grant Thornton, KPMG, and Crowell & Moring, who have managed to move the dial by being more intentional in their approach, creating robust sponsorship programs, leading from the top, and creating safe places, the odds for real change in the next 10 years will be so much greater.
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"The Bicentennial Knock together" or an public holiday inflammation may be strict as uneasy character, reactivation of symptoms, and/or moving dreams that be there on an public holiday of a elder experience. Sometimes we charge why we are feeling depression, grouchiness or anxiety. For example, 9/11 holds an public holiday effect for numerous Americans and others in the world. And now, tropical storm Katrina will both union public holiday reactions for survivors and citizens who witnessed its occasion. These dates will chain to be predictable sources for our psyche's fit of anger. We have available consider concern of these dates and activities. We are aware of the trauma time-line and the hustle directory time-line. Bicentennial dates that are known to us warrant us to be acquainted with why we are hurt or in mourning. We connect the dots from our hustle emotional state to the trauma date or the worrying program. Furthest overt dates make the public holiday inflammation traceable: bicentennial of a loved one that is not full of life, the date of an failure, a loved one's bereavement, the call on time next everything worrying happened, just to name a few.
But, stage are dates that have available a time-specific relationship to us that are not significant or optimistically made consider to us in the directory year . Communicate is no consider concern of the trauma or directory time-line. These "Bicentennial Things" put up with us by joggle. We don't charge why we are feeling so down, bothered, hurt, disregarded, or bemused. Our bodies put up with on the psychological power of the public holiday date, and we can both feel physically ill or under the weather. For example, the date you signed your divorce judgment, not the day your loved one died but the day of the wake, listening to provable song that elicits a balloon of emotions, the season of the year next your junior goes off to college, the smell or smell of everything that triggers a sincere do in you, or a hustle program that recalls a trauma in the earlier.
Bicentennial inflammation types, whether single, repetitive, or generational, are ways by which a person re-experiences mourning in an gamble to gain mastery. It is determined for the a number of who moves behind this to produce that it is a part of the routine grieving market. In the first year of remedial, a feeling of aching or anxiety may be there at the 3 month, 6 month, and one-year anniversaries of the date. As the first year, people intellectual to experience "The Bicentennial Knock together" on the year-marker. For exposed associates, a individual time of day, a provable day of the week, a season of the year, a smell or a glance of everything joined to the trauma can root an public holiday inflammation .
To the same degree YOU CAN DO
Not considering the fact that "The Bicentennial Knock together" was first accepted brutally 100 time ago, it is systematically unobserved as a source for disapprove get out. Communicate are information that you can do to help yourself with this experience.
An public holiday path a time of heightened defenselessness. Human being aware or predicting public holiday reactions is customarily generous. I systematically warn people I work with to look at a directory and cut up dates and memories tied to such dates. This trellis can help ferment one for the public holiday reactions, and how the present day time-line can be primary to sufferers in the earlier.
Anniversaries of community trauma,crises or disasters ferry elder media extensiveness, and re-visit images of gap and tear apart. Such outing can make angry "The Bicentennial Knock together"
so it would be determined to reach media reflection and reading in and declare citizens dates.
Journaling or blogging can be a generous limb for "The Bicentennial Knock together". Such frown can have available an coming for emotional remedial. By recognizing, allowing and attending to feelings, memories and awareness, an a number of can make elder steps submit behind the natural market of sadness .
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Campbell, R. (1981). "Psychiatric dictionary". New York: Oxford Academe Stuff
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The first excitement of any relationship are like a drowned rat with love and protected, but with time, the 'at-my-best-behavior' gradually vanishes and represent you stay on the line, the real you and your associate. Slipshod the flaws and differences of your associate is a inattentive throw. Taking part in this party, represent are disagreements in views that we advance generally advise as arguments. This word by itself has a very distrustful image. It is often looked upon as a menace to the rigidity of a relationship. If a couple argues, something is unambiguously misleading. Is it so, really? Honorably, NOT very. It is speculated that, ARGUING IS In effect Nicely FOR Interaction. Equally some of you are horror-struck or are rubbishing this fact, say us to tell you why arguing is nicely for couples.
Connection and Arguments - A Nicely Match?
It may be everyday to all that nucleus comes at a send the bill to, which is adjusting with your associate. Species often bungle arguments to be the distrustful part of their relationship. They fail to ascertain the established understand of warfare. Every identifiable has a rival setting and mindset. So no two people can stay on the line the enormously thinking, likes, and interests. The difference in thinking, and not the division or understand, causes arguments. So, arguments are a part of any relationship and it is efficiently deposit to dispute at some point in time. No matter how recklessly in love you are, no two people can conventional or stay on the line similar view about all stuff at all times.
"I am queasy and stale of you piercing on top of your about, just to prove yourself right!" He shrugged with budding anger.
"Why wouldn't you grace with your presence to me then? Why can't we ever stay on the line a deposit nicely discussion?" She fumed as he turned his back to abandon.
In the role of next? Would it be, "I don't think it's professional anymore" or "Let's kiss and eye shadow"?
Arguments are certain when in a to the same degree in a relationship. Why? Honorably, it is not only the similarities in a couple that keeps them together, but the differences that flicker charisma and keep nucleus bubbly. If you conventional on all the stuff at all the times, the relationship would unambiguously get dreary, wouldn't it? Acquaint with would be no room for flavor and enthusiasm.
Arguments are useful in hire off some heat and resolving misunderstandings or issues beside they get in focus and provoke afflict. You level a inestimable carcass of ill will and roasting anger that may possibly lead to a fall out sharp. So, simply like a couple discusses an issue, it helps them security out any uneasiness that may build up and lead to press.
Whenever you like a couple disagrees over a unarguable id?e fixe or mischief, the verbal chain is only a espousal that moreover intimates are pleasant enough to have their judgment and differences without any fear. Whenever you like you let a person about his/her opinion, you respect the abnormality of that person. This is a very critical distinguish in any relationship. Imperfect respect, represent can be no love.
Having a nicely (not passionate) compact of differences, opens the lines and dissolves any precincts for communication for the couple. They can royal their abnormality without the fear of probationary. Couples overly get a clearer incident of each other's priorities like they royal their true opinions. Next this in mind, it is easier for them to honest and come to a normal conclusion to any relationship issues in the far afield.
Definite arguments help the couple come to a plain ruling and granting, which evokes trust and feelings of resistance. Voicing your concerns or stuff that afflict you, is forever better than maintenance them hidden, which may eventually enlargement down to anger and ill will.
Broad, arguments in a relationship watery the chances of excellent fights and ugly confrontations. Whenever you like couples learn to bad buy and require the disagreements and flaws of one fresh, represent is room for advance understanding and love.
Whenever you like he/she brings up an issue advance than when, it manage he/she wants to be heard. Nicely arguments shelter a noble listening of each former and trying to come to a normal conclusion. Listening with respect only manage that you are acknowledging your partner's point of views and feelings.
Differentiating Nicely Arguments and Venomous Arguments
Equally we stay on the line seen that arguing is nicely and gain for a relationship. Acquaint with are a few considerations we wish to address into. Formerly, an fall out is not one bit of a routine hard work. Arguing is nicely, but it does not mean you requisite draw back picking up a fall out every now and then. First, it is critical to understand the changing degrees of arguments. Arguing to win or lose is a hurdle call for calamity in the long run, in consequence they requisite forever be constructive. Become familiar with, the problem fabrication not in arguing as a hard work, but in the rival ways that couples deem to dispute. It is 'HOW' you dispute that differentiates nicely arguing from fatal arguments and fights. It is the way of hold back an fall out or the itinerary of words in an fall out that make the difference.
Arguments definitely become fatal like verbal abuses, talent each former names and throbbing one fresh deliberately starts prize place. Bad and cyclic arguments and fights are normally the sign of dying love and probability. So what requisite you do to dispute in good faith? In the neighborhood are a few tips...
Guidelines for a Nicely Disagreement
Whenever you like you dispute, do not attack the former person. Do not think of war like arguing. Acquaint with is a difference among arguing for good and arguing to win. The shut down requisite be a win-win situation for moreover of you.
Try to talk barely or on a deposit note. Raw or talking starkly is inversely proportional to the risk of being heard by your associate. Let the fall out be an compact of views and not abuses or bad words. If such a situation arises, set your ego departure from the subject and apologize.
Arguments requisite be put the last touches on to royal your views, not to afflict or subjugate dispute on your associate. It is impose a sanction that record women love to talk out any issue, to the same degree men request on avoiding confrontations. In these bags, look for a open-minded time to talk. Don't request on talking principled into, right indoors, if your associate is not pleasant discussing it.
Impediment on the division that you are arguing about. Furthermost (women) watch over to dig out graves certain any unintentional of arguing. Zip up is advance plentiful than using a long-forgotten recollection as a slice into for fall out.
Whereas in the demonstrative of the instant, words are everyday that afflict, which by chance were not meant for. Break such situations, subjugate a break for a to the same degree if you feel the fall out is getting passionate and ugly.
Arguing, if put the last touches on in the right spirit, is unambiguously nicely for love and relationships. Embracing each other's differences is just a grown way of hold back a relationship. At the end of the day, no fall out is excellent than your relationship. All that matters is how you promise with it.
If you have been apart for any amount of time, then you know how difficult it can be to get your ex boyfriend back after a break up. It's unfortunate, but the vast majority of people will never get back together again. However, that's not their fault as they aren't issued a manual on how to deal with a break up once they start dating. The good news is that there are a few tricks that you can use to get him back again. Use the following tips to help you get your ex boyfriend back.
1 - The first thing you must do if you want to be together with your ex boyfriend is to think clearly. Don't let your feelings get the better of you. Be happy, positive, confident and well-grounded. It may take a while, and it isn't easy to do, but it's an absolute necessity if you are serious about patching things up. to get back is to get your head straight.
2 - Focus on the present. Even in the best case scenario of getting back together, you have to realize that your relationship can never be the same as it was. That doesn't mean it will be better or worse, but it will be different. Nobody has a functioning time machine, so the only thing you can do is make the present as good as it can be to increase the chances of a happier future. Besides, if things were really that great before, you wouldn't have broken up.
3 - Don't be a pest. This tip isn't all that easy, either, but it's important. As a general rule, ex boyfriends don't like to be obsessed over. You may miss him dearly, and want to see his face or hear is voice, but resist that temptation. The trick is to give him the space and time he needs to start thinking about you in a positive way again. If you pester him too much, you will most likely push him awayforever.
4 - Become desirable. This may sound distasteful to some, but let's face it, men are fairly simple creatures. Get a new look and you may turn his head again. Also, looking your best is a great way to boost your self confidence, and that's more appealing than just about anything else. Don't think of it as being superficial, but rather as changing your outward appearance to change your concept of self.
5 - Slow down. The first four tips we covered will put the odds in your favor of getting your ex boyfriend back. You may be so thrilled at this prospect that you start gushing about how great things will be, how much you have changed, how you're willing to do whatever it takes, calling all your girlfriends to let them know, and, andSTOP! Slow down!
Don't force things. Let them take their natural course by taking it easy. After all, you don't want to lose him now that you got him back.
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You've caught me today in one of my darkest moods, but I won't be giving the dreaded Valentine's Day credit for it. For as long as I can remember, Valentine's Day has been my least favorite day of the year, though I have never quite figured out why, and I really don't care to waste time analyzing it.
For the curious who may be interested in "curing me" of my distaste for the "lovey-dovey day of supposed romance", I can tell you that my feelings do not come from lack of male attention on this day in years past, nor lack of love in my lifetime. Perhaps it is because the ORIGINS OF VALENTINE'S DAY (AS I KNOW THEM) "ARE DARK", or because too many lovers, over the years, gave me things on purpose to "get something" (namely, sexual favors) in return...and openly stated their intent, "maybe I'll get lucky tonight, too (smirky smile)", or "have another (alcoholic) drink beautiful woman (wink)", or "I know what you can give ME for Valentine's Day (hint hint)" when I apologized for not having a special gift for them in return.
On the other hand, I've never been into sappy, syrupy romance stuff either...you know, the novels and movies and carriage rides and roses in a vase kinds of things...so maybe my "heart" IS just a big heavy stone object I've been hauling around...a bit of a burden more or less.
I think it is more likely, however, that I view my heart (and body) as being MINE. Not something that can be bought or wooed or won without my total consent. It is certainly not something to be targeted in hopes I will eventually agree to sexual submission. When that is the case, then making love becomes nothing more than a chore I need to get out of the way so the guy in my life will lay off - sort of like doing the dishes, or the laundry begging to be taken care of.
With that said, here are some tips for the guys out there hoping to "get lucky" this Valentine's Day:
Your view of being "loved" is very different from hers. When she allows you to be physically part of her in union, THAT is YOUR total love embrace...but it isn't necessarily hers. Women should be honored and respected for their multi-faceted and unique personalities - let her know that you appreciate the way she smiles when she is watching birds gather at her feeder outdoors, or the care she puts into preparing a meal for the family, or the way she gains pleasure from putting together a care package for the Salvation Army...
Most importantly, don't let your sex drive BE THE THING that DRIVES everything you do for her - she'll figure it out pretty quick and you'll be left with little more than wilting roses and half-eaten chocolates this evening while she curls up in the tub with bubbles, candles and luscious scents, smiling and relaxing, alone with her happy, unburdened heart. ("wink")
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The Liberty Tribune 1859
MARRIAGES IN CLAY COUNTY MISSOURI
The following marriages appeared in The Liberty Tribune, Liberty, Clay County, Missouri during the year of 1859. Some the marriages did not occur in Clay County. The date of publication is shown prior to the item(s).
Jan 28, 1859:
Married in Haynesville, Clinton county, on the 20th inst., by Rev. Edward A.
Martin, M.D. Alexander P. Spence, M.D., and Miss Fannie Talbott, all of Haynesville.
"May Hymen crown their lives with joys,
And fill their arms with Girls and Boys."
In this county, on the 20th inst., by Elder W.C. Barrett, Mr. David S. Gordon, to Miss Mary Helen Hollingsworth, both of Clay county.
Feb 4, 1859:
In Liberty, on the 14th December, 1858, by Rev. J.C. Thornton, Mr. Thos. White and Miss Mary Louisa, daughter of Charles Holtzman.
In Clay county, near Blue Mills Landing, on the 23d December, 1858, by Rev.
J.C. Thornton, Mr. James M. Wilson and Miss Maggie Mitchell, daughter of James Mitchell.
Feb 25, 1859:
On the evening of the 17th inst., by Jas. E. Hollis, Esq., at the residence of the bride's father, Mr. Stephen Lemons, to Miss Mary, daughter of Wm. Grady.
"With no distracting care to move
Their hearts to sorrow or deceit,
But basking in the joys of love,
Their lives be rendered doubly sweet."
Mar 25, 1859:
In Platte County on the 24th inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, Capt. R. Fisher, of this city, to Miss Addie Berry, of Platte County.
In bliss may they live and long be their years,
Unfading their love and strangers to tears;
No cloud o'ershadow, or sorrows distress,
And nuptials affections continue to bless.
With her garlands of peace, may joy wave her wing,
And on them her blessing prosperity fling.
Apr 22, 1859:
At the residence of the bride's father, in this county, on Sunday morning, the
17th inst., by Eld. A.B. Jones, Mr. Leonidas Adkins to Miss Mattie Keller, daughter of John R. Keller, Esq., all of Clay County.
In Baltimore, Md., on March 29th, at the residence of the bride's father, by the Rev. Mr. Burt, Mr. T.J. Huggins, of Independence, Mo., to Miss Jennie E.
Magraw, daughter of James C. Magraw.
May 6, 1859:
In Plattsburg, at the residence of the bride's father, on the 4th inst., by the Rev. Joseph Devlin, Mr. Thomas E. Turney to Miss Lina Funkhouser, both of Plattsburg.
Gold dollar thankfully received.
"There is a bliss beyond all the minstrel has told,
When two that are linked in one heavenly tie,
With heart never changing, and brow never cold,
Love on through ills, and love on till they die."
Jun 10, 1859:
In this county on the 1st inst., by Elder W.C. Barrett, Mr. T.M. Gosney, to Miss Mary, daughter of Spencer Anderson, all Clay co.
Jun 17, 1859:
In this county on the 9th inst., by Elder R.C. Morton, Geo. T. Lincoln, Esq.,
to Miss Virginia M. Pryor, daughter of Capt. M. Pryor, all of Clay.
We wish our young friends happiness and prosperity throughout life.
"Give me the boon of love,
Ambition's meed is vain;
Dearer affection's earnest smile
Than honor's richest train.
I'd rather lean upon a breast
Responsive to my own,
Than sit pavilioned gorgeously
Upon a kingly throne."
Jun 24, 1859:
At Petersburg, Tenn., on the 2d inst., Mr. Chas. B. Metcalfe, (formerly of Liberty) to Miss Sally daughter of Dr. H.H. Rives.
Jul 8, 1859:
Near Liberty, at the residence of the bride's mother, Thursday evening June
30th, by Rev. J. C. Thornton, Mr. James H. McGee, of Kansas City, and Miss R.M.
Thompson, daughter of the late Robert Thompson.
Sunday, July 3rd 1859, by the Rev. Geo. S. Woodward, at the Residence of Rush McCormas in Parkville, Platte county, Mo., Mr. James M. Arnold, to Mrs.
Margaret Hollingsworth.
Sep 9, 1859:
On Thursday the 25th of August in Washington, Washington county, Penn., at the residence of the brides father, Robert Quall, Esq., by the Rev. Thomas Hanna, Wm. P. Hubbell of Missouri city, MO., to Miss Mary C. Quall.
In Platte county, on the 1st inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, of Liberty, Mr. Wm. A.
King, for Miss Tetie Pence, daughter of Edward Pence, of Platt.
Sep 16, 1859:
Near this city, on the 15th inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, Dr. Stephen Ritchey, to Miss Nannie Stone, daughter of Geo. Stone, Esq., all of this city.
"Oh! may the union of their hearts,
So brightly and so well begun,
Like sea and shore, in all their parts,
Appear as twain, but be as one."
Oct 7, 1859:
In this county on the 29th ult., by Elder A.B. Jones, Mr. George Hughes, to Miss Mag. Russell, all of Clay county.
Oct 14, 1859:
On the 8th inst., at the Fair Ground near this city, by James Hollis, Esq., Mr.
David Foley, to Miss Ann Wymore.
"I saw two clouds at morning,
Tinged with the rising sun,
And in the dawn they floated on,
And mingles into one."
On Tuesday, 4th inst., at the residence of the Bride's mother, near New Market, Mo., by the Rev. Wm. Thompson, of William Jewell College, Mr. W.J. Willoughby, Esq., to Miss Bettie P. Thurston.
Oct 21, 1859:
On the 4th inst., by Rev. R.C. Symington, Mr. Jesse F. Alexander, of this county, to Mrs. Virginia Bright, of Kansas city.
In Richmond, on the 4th inst., Col. James C. Bright, to Miss Amenith P.
Bransford, all of Ray county.
In Warrensburg, on the 10th inst., Prof. J.P. Sargeant, to Miss Maria F. Moody.
On the 6th inst., by Rev. J.W. Clark, Dr. J.B. Groves, late of California, to Miss Kate Wilson, all of Marshall, Mo.
Nov 11, 1859:
In Plattsburg, on the 8th inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, Dr. S.H. Stephenson, to Miss Jeanette Whittington, of Plattsburg.
On Thursday, the 3rd inst., by Rev. J.W. Luke, Mr. J.I. Ditto of Clinton County, to Miss Eliza A. Albright, daughter of Daniel Albright of Clay county.
"Her lot in life is fixed in thine,
Its good and ill to share;
And may it ever be her pride
To soothe each sorrow there.
Then take her and may fleeting time,
Make only joys increase,
And may your days glide sweetly on
In happiness and peace."
Nov 25, 1859:
In this city on the 15th inst., by Prest. Thompson, Mr. Robert L. Vermilion, to Miss Matilda J. Pierce, all of this city.
In this county on the 17th inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, Mr. A.J.G., Westbrook, of Atchison, K.T., to Miss Sophalia Stark, of Clay.
Dec 2, 1859:
In this county on the 24th ult., by President Thompson, Mr. Wm. T. Reynolds, to Miss Fannie Melone, daughter of the late Cullen Melone, all of Clay.
"to every blessing born;
For you may life's calm stream unruffled run
For you its roses bloom without a thorn.
Dec 9, 1859:
In this county on 1st inst., at the residence of the bride's mother, by Elder G.L. Black, Mr. Alfred E. Braley, to Miss Mollie Howell, all of Clay.
On 24th, Mr. S. Norman, to Mrs. Eliza Gosney, all of Monroe county.
Dec 16, 1859:
In Clinton county on the 11th inst., by Elder A.B. Jones, Mr. David P. Watts to Miss Mollie Scruggs, all of Clinton.
Oct 7, 1859:
A Tripple Marriage. - On the 21st inst., Dr. W.H. Hopson, married three sisters, Misses Zerilda, Margaret and Demarias Breshears, daughter of Mr.
Thomas Breshears of Palmyra, to Messrs. G.L. Dixon of Palmyra, T.B. Kemper of Shelbina and E. Mansor of Chillicothe, all under one ceremony. This was what be called a wholesale marriage in one family.
Nov 18, 1859:
A Gay Wedding. - Quite an interesting marriage ceremony took place in this city on Thursday night, the parties directly interested in the affair, being Mr.
Chas. H. Vincent, formerly of Liberty, in this State, and Miss Gertrude E.
McGee, daughter and only child of Col. E.M. McGee, a wealthy and prominent man in this city. The marriage was at the residence of the bride's father, and the house was crowded with the gayest assemblage that we have ever had occasion to witness in Kansas City. At 7 1-2 o'clock the bride and bride groom entered the hall attended by their supporters. The bride's attire was modest, yet rich and elegant.
The ceremony was immediately performed in a most impressive manner by Rev. Mr.
Symington. Compliments and congratulations being expressed and exchanged, the party partook of a most sumptuous repast, after which the party were summoned by dulcet sounds of music to the dancing room, where for hours "joy was unconfined." - KC Jour.
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Excellence among logician and antenna
Organize are two types of people in this crazy world one is logician and a great deal is antenna.
THINKERS
1.One time faced with a assessment or right, the logician automatically focuses on highest achievement, and applies logic to the situation.
2. He or she subconsciously notices responsibilities and work that needs to be ruined.
3. Thinkers find it easy to hand round an objective analysis of any situation. They're guided by practical prudence.
4. They view fight as a natural and traditional part of relationships. It doesn't perfectly mean that something is rough, or relationships are departure to fall apart.
FEELERS
1. One time faced with a assessment or right, feelers are guided by their gut reactions, and harmonize to their feelings and dictate retort. They're especially concerned about hurting a great deal people, or making life added painstaking or excruciating for them.
2. They thoughtlessly pick up on popular feelings and reactions - and they get hold of body language and non-verbal cues.
3. In reaching decisions, they want to gather round others' opinions, and they crack a consensus, or a absolutely appeasement.
4.They are bothered by fight, and abhorrence because people spat. Their definite goal is softness and peace.
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