We all know Neuro-linguistic programming or NLP is a great personal development tool hailed by many personal development gurus like Jack Canfield orfamous celebrities like Oprah Winfrey. Yet, few actually know how to realize the true potential of NLP. Do you know apart from helping you elicit the empowering mind states, it too can miraculously help heal broken relationships with your loved one Years ago, I had the the privilege to work with a client who had a very broken relationship with his own dad, a 10-year feud that not only erode the precious time he spent with his dad but also made him live in agony and hatred all those while. To most counsellors, mending such broken relationships is going to take ages, if not an impossible task. Yet, to a well-trained NLP coach and NLP practitioner, it is just a matter of putting what you learn into practice. Using the NLP S.O.A.R. Model, we used a combination of NLP tools like Perceptual Positions, Time Line Therapy and Anchoring to resolve David's relationship challenge with his father in one of our highly acclaimed NLP Practitioner Programs. Today, David has reconciled with his dad and treasures the newfound bonding he shares with him.ROOT CAUSE PROBLEM-SOLVING WITH ACME ACHIEVER'S NLP COACHING At first thought, it may seem to you that NLP is a tool that offers a "quick-fix" to all your problems. That cannot be further from the truth. While there are many NLP coaching methodologies which focus on solving problems in the shortest possible time, our NLP coaching programs focus on creating lasting change in our clients' life. Instead of just working on the symptoms of the problem, we are always more interested in identifying the root cause of our clients' problem. In NLP, we term this as the study of ecology or the wider consequences. Since Time Line Therapy recognizes that every problem has a root cause, the first step is to always help your client to identify when the event happened in the past. Unfortunately, most of the clients are usually not conscious about the root of the problem. Moving through the Time Line, a trained NLP practitioner will be able to guide his or her client back to the first or significant event (root cause) and helped him change the meaning he gave to it. After all, nothing in life has any meaning until you give it.WHAT YOU STAND FOR DEPENDS ON WHERE YOU STAND You see. What you stand for also depends on where you stand. Through another powerful NLP tool known as Perceptual Positions, you as a NLP practitioner will learn to guide your client through 4 different Perceptual Positions which allow them to view the same situation in entirely different maps. In fact, have you ever realized how easy it is for you to criticize another person's mistakes and flaws, only to struggle to deal with a similar situation and overcome the same flaws when you are in it yourself? This is because you are now associated to the problem and there's an emotional attachment to it. For David, his breakthrough came when he stepped into the perceptual position of his dad and was finally able to understand the positive intention behind his dad's behavior. He realized how he might have wronged him and decided to make it up to his dad, breaking into tears.MAKING A DIFFERENCE AS AN NLP COACH Indeed, my journey as an NLP coach has been an extremely meaningful and fulfilling one so far. With the opportunity to work with friends from all walks of life, I have gained a deeper understanding of the human behavior and helped countless achieve their breakthroughs much more effortlessly and rapidly than I thought possible. To learn how you can kick start your own journey of making a difference in the lives of the people around you as a NLP coach too, register to participate in our Free NLP Sharing session today. The post Healing Broken Relationships Through the NLP Way! appeared first on Best Singapore NLP Certification Training Company.
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