The Deal Breaker

My friend Lala has a guy-pal, Christopher, who has very high principles being it comes to the women he dates. "If he opens her fridge and it's a mess up inside, that's a "deal-breaker"," she explained to a reasonably bemused blogger. "He won't ask her for a second date." Idea about the disembark of my own fridge, I realized that a relationship concerning Christopher and I can never course. We are not "kitchen-compatible." Too bad.

But it got me thinking. As regards "deal-breakers", and the high principles we put on each other- and ourselves- being trying to find love.

I've typical women who honestly had "lists" of what they wanted from a man. I mean real lists, on paper. Bits and pieces like "opens doors for me" and "is nice to his mom." That slays me. When if present-day were a genie who might stir up my idyllic mate, don't you think I would keep in check rubbed his oil lamp a long time ago?

And men, like Lala's friend, are also responsive to their own pre-conceived opinion about love. Whilst in my experience, "their" lists habitually run to the condescending "hasty" aspects of the female status (distressing, guys).

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